Thursday, August 20, 2015

Thursday Thoughts....

Happy Thursday Ladies!
Hope you are all having a great week!  We have been enjoying our last few days of summer and running around like crazy trying to get everything we need together for school on Monday!
Lately I have found myself being just disgusted with so many people, I feel like nowadays there are so many negative, mean, back stabbing people out there!  I have seen so much change around me over the past 10 years, and I have to say, most of what I have seen I HATE!  I have always tried to look for the good in everyone and everything, I mean heck none of us are perfect, but I have always believed everyone has some good in them. 
I feel like it wasn't that long ago that people were truly supportive of one another, that people really wanted those around them to succeed, that people helped others for the simple fact of just helping them, no hidden agendas.  I feel like nowadays some people can only find joy and happiness by tearing someone down, people don't think twice about stabbing you in the back if it means it can benefit them. 
I find it so sad that we confide in people who we think we can trust, and sadly they just build an arsenal up to be used against you at a later date.
I hate that I have to raise my kids to be somewhat guarded, to have to tell them they can't trust someone just because someone swears they can be trusted.  I hate that lying has become all too easy for so many people.  For many, it is so much easier to lie than to tell the truth, and I just think it sucks! 
Over the years I have seen my circle of friends decrease in size dramatically, and I am really OK with that.  I have learned that quality over quantity is better any day!
Be sure to check back tomorrow for Friday Favorites!


  1. So true and its really unfortunate!! I have cut a lot of toxic people out of my life and my life is so much more peaceful now!

  2. I understand this post, girl. As I get older my circle of friends gets smaller but they are richer/stronger relationships. :)

  3. I totally get this. Especially in the last two-three weeks. And let's just say I've had to set a few people straight.

  4. Totally agree with you on this Kimm. And I have said it many times before. MEAN PEOPLE SUCK. My circle of friends has changed dramatically with the invention of Facebook and Instagram and I could NEVER ever blog because I see all the negative and mean people out there. I enjoy everyones blogs and I like to comment but people sure do get brave when they have a computer and can remain anonymous. I just believe that if you can't be kind, be quiet. or......STFU! LOL sorry. That was not nice but seriously people, if you don't like someone and want to bag on them, then stop reading their blog! Its very simple. Do you think that people just have nothing better to do with their time? Anyway, enjoy Toby Keith! Have a great weekend!